FEATURE:
Pride Month 2025
Spotlighting Munroe Bergdorf
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THERE is a bit…
of housekeeping to do before getting to some interviews with the fabulous Munroe Bergdorf. As it is Pride Month, I am spending time highlighting incredible and empowering people from the L.G.B.T.Q.I.A.+ community. I mainly focus on music but, in a slight break away from that, I am spending time with this incredible British model and activist. Bergdorf has appeared on several catwalks for brands including Gypsy Sport at both London and NYC Fashion Weeks. I am cribbing information from her Wikipedia page. I already knew that Munroe Bergdorf was the first transgender model in the U.K. for L'Oréal. She was dropped within weeks following a racial row. It was a huge moment that made the news. I remember it well. In February 2018, Bergdorf was appointed as an LGBT adviser to the Labour Party. She resigned the following month. She also appeared in the Channel 4 documentary What Makes a Woman, which aired in May 2018. There is a lot more to say about her. However, I want to finish this section by mentioning that Bergdorf joined UN Women UK as an advocate in 2019, supporting its #DrawALine campaign, seeking to end female genital mutilation (FGM). Such an impressive and varied career. A trans icon who has given strength and voice to so many people, you can follow her on Instagram. It is also timely spotlighting her, as the new film, Love & Rage: Munroe Bergdorf, is in cinemas 10th and 11th June. Here is some more information about a film that is so urgent and relevant. Especially at a time when discrimination against the trans community is at an all-time high:
“Trans model and activist Munroe Bergdorf is bringing us a close look at her life in a new documentary. It will explore her childhood, how her identity was silenced as she grew up and her mission to overcome the obstacles that society places in her way in order to be a voice for the LGBTQIA+ community. This comes after she presented a documentary in 2018 called What Makes A Woman.
Munroe announced the release of the documentary in a post on Instagram previously, opening up about how it made her step out of her comfort zone and gave her an opportunity to issue a rallying cry against transphobia.
She wrote: "Keeping this a secret has been so hard, but I’m beyond excited to finally be able to share it with you all…
"The past 3 years have been a rollercoaster filled with so many formative moments, in both my public and personal life. But this is more than just a film about me… This documentary is very much a love letter to our global trans community. It is a call for change within a world where transphobia has become the status quo.
“I’m immensely proud of what we’ve created, it’s been a wild, wild ride and I can’t wait for it to be out in the world.”
Munroe has spoken to GLAMOUR before about the importance of visibility and representation for the trans community, in the workplace, politics and everywhere else. “The best thing that we can do is stay together, and we can't expect to have trans rights protection if we are not standing up for abortion rights,” she added. “We can't expect women's rights to be protected if we are not supporting trans women.”
What is Love & Rage: Munroe Bergdorf about?
According to a synopsis, the documentary "tells the intimate and unflinching story of Munroe Bergdorf – author, model, leading trans activist, global pioneer of LGBTQIA+ equity, and creative force. As an international trailblazer in the fight for LGBTQIA+ rights, Munroe faces fierce discrimination while living and embracing her truth. This powerful documentary not only tells Munroe’s personal story but also serves as a call to action, sparking a universal conversation of hope and inspiration.
"The documentary offers a raw, personal portrayal of Munroe Bergdorf, showcasing her journey from a formidable public figure to a woman reclaiming control of her life. While it explores the challenges she has faced — including navigating a homophobia and racism and difficult relationships — it also highlights moments of resilience, self-discovery, and empowerment. Facing public scrutiny and personal obstacles, Munroe transitions from waiting for societal change to embracing her own transformation.
“The film weaves her memories with present-day moments, using stylised sequences and a sensory soundscape to reflect the complexity of her experiences. Through interviews and personal reflections, we learn about Munroe’s resilience, the importance of her chosen family, and witness her healing process as she moves forward to create a joyful future on her own terms”.
I am going to move to an interesting feature written by Munroe Bergdorf. If you are able to order a copy of DIVA, then there is a fascinating interview with her. I would urge people to listen to the latest episode of Happy Place, where Bergdorf spoke with Fearne Cotton. Writing for British Vogue in April of this year, Bergdorf reacted to the Supreme Court’s decision that the legal definition of a woman in the 2010 Equality Act excludes transgender women. It is a compelling response. I am quoting from the first half or so of the piece. I would urge people to read the whole thing, as it is a really compelling and powerful read:
“Having begun my own medical transition 15 years ago, I know first-hand the importance of hormone replacement therapy. I have seen and felt the potential that it has to save, change and sustain a life. Quite honestly, like the vast majority of trans people who medically transition, I would not be alive without it.
While, yes, medically transitioning is a choice, it is often a choice between life or a life of escalating despair; life or a life of self-destruction; life or no longer living at all… Gender affirming care isn’t the controversial, understudied or farfetched luxury it’s painted as by those invested in a relentlessly anti-trans agenda. For those who are waiting to medically transition, it is a lifeline – one that’s in desperate need of protection.
Across the UK, transgender people are being contacted by NHS doctors, notifying them that their access to hormone replacement therapy (HRT) is to be immediately withdrawn. HRT is a key element of gender affirming care that helps to alleviate feelings of gender dysphoria, to align a person’s gender identity with their physical appearance. Whilst the exact numbers of those who have had their care withdrawn or refused is still unknown due to an absence of official data, increasing numbers of trans people are taking to social media to express their concern, while NHS gender service workers are also reporting that the level of withdrawn care has increased over the last 12 months.
Danielle St James, chief executive and trustee of Not A Phase, a trans-led nationwide charity with a commitment to uplifting the lives of trans+ adults, tells me: “The sudden removal of access to hormones is having a devastating impact on trans+ adults, particularly those who were already facing barriers to healthcare. At Not A Phase, we’re hearing from people who are scared, desperate and struggling to understand how they will continue their transitions. For many, HRT is not just medication. It allows them to live in alignment with who they are, improving their mental health and overall wellbeing. Losing access overnight is not just distressing – it’s dangerous.”
In 2023 it was reported that some transgender people in England had waited up to seven years even for an initial NHS assessment. (After spending 1,023 days waiting for a first appointment, 20-year-old Alice Litman took her own life in May 2022. Following her death, Alice’s family said: “Alice described the years-long wait and the inadequacy of her care as leaving her feeling hopeless and helpless without an end in sight… We all deserve to live in dignity with access to the healthcare we need. We are asking NHS England to prevent further deaths by urgently addressing the crisis in trans healthcare.”)
Meanwhile, apprehension towards assisting medical transitions has undoubtedly been compounded following the highly critiqued Cass Review of April 2024, which resulted in a ban on the prescription of puberty blockers for transgender teens (even though they are still considered safe to use for cisgender teens). Add to this an overwhelmingly hostile anti-trans media bias, which frames gender affirming care as “unsafe” or “experimental”, with a disproportionate fixation on the subject of medical regret and detransition. In reality, gender affirming care is a diligently studied field that has existed since the early 20th century, in which regret rates for medical transition remain inarguably low.
In a 2022 study carried out by The Lancet, it was found that 98 per cent of transgender youth who had access to transgender healthcare continued their treatment into adulthood. These findings were reinforced by a 2023 study carried out by the Transgender Health Program, in which it was found that 99.7 per cent of transgender individuals were satisfied with their surgery, with a regret rate of 0.3 per cent – six patients out of a sample of 1,989. The study concluded that “a care environment that welcomes and normalises authentic expression of gender identity, affirms surgical goals without judgment, and destigmatises the role of mental health in the surgical process are foundational to mitigating the occurrence of any form of regret”.
While we should absolutely have compassion for the small number of those who do detransition, just as we should with anyone who regrets any medical decision, it’s important to acknowledge that a medical regret rate of less than one per cent should not be weaponised in this way. We wouldn’t restrict the ability for people to procreate because eight per cent of British parents regret having children, just as we would not ban knee surgery because six to 30 per cent of people express dissatisfaction with their knee replacements.
Yet we are witnessing our government and National Health Service encouraging and enforcing sweeping medical restrictions on gender affirming care. The politicisation of healthcare should never be accepted by anyone. If – due to an absence of policy – NHS doctors are allowed to refuse specific treatment to a specific minority group based on their personal beliefs or a lack of education, it creates a breeding ground for institutional discrimination and a dangerous, unacceptable precedent. What next? Access to abortion and birth control? Or HIV prevention? A targeted withdrawal of medication should alarm us all.
And so, the UK’s transgender community is now having to contend with yet another government making it harder to exist as a trans person, instead of addressing or fixing the mounting issues trans people face in their day to day lives. Systemic transphobia is being presented as the solution, while transgender people are reduced to the status of a “problematic ideology”. And it doesn’t stop at British healthcare policy – or indeed in Britain. We are living in an era of multinational governments clamping down on the existence of transness within public life itself, with our supposedly closest political ally, America, introducing some of the most shockingly restrictive anti-trans policies in history. A memo issued by Secretary of State Marco Rubio, which could result in all international transgender people being banned from visiting the country, is just the latest in a recent run of epic discrimination”.
Published tomorrow (5th June), Munroe Bergdorf’s book, Talk to Me: How to talk about the things that matter is one that everyone should own. I heard her talking about the book (and the upcoming film) with Nick Grimshaw on BBC Radio 6 Music on Monday. It was a really good interview. I have known about Munroe Bergdorf and her work for years now but I am learning new things about her. I am interested to see what Love & Rage: Munroe Bergdorf delivers. Her new book looks incredible. Go and order a copy now:
“Have you ever felt really passionately about something but struggled to put it into words?
Or found yourself in an argument with someone who won't listen?
Or felt regret about the things you didn't say in the moment?
Conversations can be tricky, whether it's with friends, family, people online or a room full of strangers. And someone who knows this all too well is writer, activist and model, Munroe Bergdorf.
Covering topics from beauty standards, cancel culture, gender identity and more, Talk To Me gives you the tools to navigate tough discussions, change people's minds, accept when you're wrong and know when to step away.
We need to start talking now”.
I am going to leave things there. I wanted to put this feature out ahead of the release of Munroe Bergdorf’s book tomorrow. During Pride Month, of course I am spotlighting great L.G.BT.Q.I.A.+ artists. Also, I will look at hugely important figures outside of music who are influencing and inspiring the L.G.B.T.Q.I.A.+ community. As a fan of Munroe Bergdorf, I am looking forward to reading reviews for Love & Rage: Munroe Bergdorf and Talk to Me: How to talk about the things that matter. As a member of The Trouble Club, I was wondering whether Bergdorf is in their sights and a possibility. She would be a brilliant guest! Not to sway them too much, though it would be incredible hearing Bergdorf speak to Trouble members about her life, career and new work. I feel so much sympathy for the trans community. A time when they are under attack and marginalised more than they ever have been, we have taken a huge step back regarding trans rights. I know that Munroe Bergdorf gives so much power and strength to other trans people. It has been a real honour shining a light on…
AN L.G.B.T.Q.I.A.+ role model.